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10 Oct

How To Wear a See-Through Shirt In Real Life

Jessi Malay wearing Lurelly Silk Blouse

Jessi Malay wearing Lurelly Silk Blouse

Most of us ladies are not 100% good or bad, conservative or liberal, feminine or androgynous at all times…most of us in this day and age fall somewhere right in between… We want to do it all, be everything we can be, and look good while doing it. We want to succeed and be bosses in our professional lives, and supermoms, wives, or girlfriends at home, all while finding the time to workout, eat right, and make sufficient time for our friends and families. It’s an exhausting time to be a woman…but a very promising and exciting time for all of us.

Last night I was watching the presidential debate and as I listened to Hillary speak and address social issues from a woman’s perspective, with a soft but strong, empathetic and personal touch, real life examples at hand, it really made me feel proud to be a woman in this era. Regardless of your political views, I think we can all agree that this is a pretty special time and we should celebrate in that we have finally entered an era when women genuinely can do whatever we set our minds to, and be respected as equals in the process.

That being said, that’s how I’m approaching my personal style these days. I come from the music industry, and in pursuing a professional career in pop music since I was 14, I grew up wanting to be sexy, because the strong and successful artists I admired (Beyonce, Jennifer Lopez, Madonna) were that, and seemed to have the world in the palms of their hands. What I didn’t understand as a 14 year old girl, is that sexy, is really only sexy, when it is issued in doses. For example, for every song like ‘Baby Boy’ that Beyonce has released, there is another like ‘Irreplaceable’ to even the scale. For every film like ‘U-Turn’ that Jennifer Lopez starred in that was full of sexual content, there was another like ‘Enough’ to remind women how strong and capable we are.

A bit off topic, but this outfit and how I like to address my daily looks, is just that, a bit sexy and ladylike but not gratuitous. I’m wearing a sheer, see-through blouse by Lurelly, but it’s tied up to my neck and worn with high waisted flares that are not too tight for a look that is fun and serious, sexy yet professional. While I wouldn’t necessarily wear this in a board room, the concept is there and I trust you to adapt and make it your own :)Jessi Malay wearing Lurelly Silk Blouse

Jessi Malay wearing Lurelly Silk Blouse5 More Ways To Style A See-Through Shirt For Real Life:

1. Layer your blouse over a silky, lacy cami. The details and slight sheen will look lovely through the top.
2. Couple your blouse with anything high-waisted: loose trousers or a 3/4 length a-line skirt are a perfect balance.
3. Pair your blouse with a suit! This is one of my favorite ways to wear this look, and because you’ll be mostly covered by a blazer, you can get away with wearing just a bralette for coverage. Just be sure it’s the type of bra that’s meant to be seen and nothing too padded.
4. I’m loving the new denim this season and juxtaposing a great pair of distressed, high waisted jeans (see here) is the perfect casual way to wear this look.
5. Wear your see-through blouse underneath a slip dress or bustier for a layered style that’s girly and fresh!

Jessi Malay wearing Lurelly Silk Blouse

Jessi Malay wearing Lurelly Silk Blouse

Jessi Malay wearing Lurelly Silk Blouse

Shop My Look:

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  • Jalisa

    You look absolutely gorgeous, girlie! I love this entire outfit, the fit of both pieces on you is amazing and I love the bow detail on that top! Thanks so much for sharing and I hope you have a great week ahead!



    October 10, 2016 at 10:18 am Reply
  • sasha

    omgggg! I love this look so much! you are so fabulous! so much slayage in one picture :D


    October 10, 2016 at 10:42 am Reply
  • Daria

    Love your outfit! The post is very interesting so I really enjoyed reading it!



    October 10, 2016 at 10:56 am Reply
  • Sharon Wu

    OMG I am literally obsessseddddd with those pants of yours!!! I need them in my life ASAP <3 Loving that silk blouse too. You look so gorgeous, Jessi! Wishing you a great week ahead xoxo, sharon


    October 10, 2016 at 11:43 am Reply
  • Nina

    You look stunning in ths outfit, Love the top .
    Nina’s Style Blog

    October 10, 2016 at 12:14 pm Reply
  • Amy Arnold

    You are so gorgeous!! I love the top with the tie detail paired with the flares.

    Amy Ann
    Straight A Style

    October 10, 2016 at 12:16 pm Reply
  • Laura

    LOVE this look!! You look amazing! I’m a bit nervous about wearing sheer tops like this one, but I really like how you paired it with the white bralette :)

    October 10, 2016 at 12:29 pm Reply
  • Kristen Robin

    This blouse is absolutely stunning! I love the little brallette you paired with it. The whole look is just breathtaking <3

    http://www.kristenskouture.com | Luxury. Fashion. Lifestyle.


    October 10, 2016 at 12:37 pm Reply
  • Miki

    You look stunning, Jessi! Love this entire ensemble. I adore transparent blouses and think they’re so pretty to wear with a lace bra. This outfit is so perfect! Happy Monday!


    October 10, 2016 at 12:50 pm Reply
  • Dana

    This blouse is amazing, the sheer-ness is one thing but the structure of the blouse is stunning, especially that bow!

    Dana | fashiondew.co.uk

    October 10, 2016 at 12:58 pm Reply

    This blouse is gorgeous! I’m also loving those trousers! Love the flared detail. Great look my girl!

    Love, Lindsey

    October 10, 2016 at 1:35 pm Reply
  • La Bijoux Bella | by mia

    Yasss! Can I get a “holler”! Simply chic and classy look! :)

    La Bijoux Bella | by mia

    October 10, 2016 at 1:42 pm Reply
  • Hannah Will

    I love how you’ve styled this see-through piece in such a classy way!:) you have lovely style, xx, Hannah


    October 10, 2016 at 2:59 pm Reply
  • Maryam

    I absolutely love this shirt and how you’ve styled the whole look! You look so chic Jessi! x

    xo, Maryam

    October 10, 2016 at 3:44 pm Reply
  • My Linh

    I love this look on you. The blouse is out of this world. You pull the look together so well.
    Looking forward for more of your fashion mix.
    My Linh

    October 10, 2016 at 4:05 pm Reply
  • Linh Winn

    Great post Jessi! loving your look so much and of course I’m obsessed with your photos as well!

    xx Linh


    October 10, 2016 at 4:08 pm Reply
  • Raysa Garcia

    You styled this shirt beautifully. Love the entire outfit, babe.
    Xx, Raysa

    October 10, 2016 at 5:34 pm Reply
  • IEEE

    such a gorgeous look, really enjoyed reading your post! thanks for sharing!

    October 11, 2016 at 2:33 am Reply
  • Millie

    Loving this look, especially the sunnies x

    Millie x

    October 11, 2016 at 3:53 am Reply
  • Trendique

    WOW WOW WOW!!! You’re such a doll!!! LOVE this top <3

    xo Vanessa from http://www.Trendique-Magazine.com

    October 11, 2016 at 5:00 am Reply
  • Ashley

    Totally agree- women wear allll different kinds of hats, and this is reflected in fashion. Love the super sheer blouse with the high-waisted Zara’s. Killer!

    Le Stylo Rouge

    October 11, 2016 at 10:00 am Reply
  • Adaora

    Great tips! Love this outfit


    October 12, 2016 at 2:07 am Reply
  • Carmen

    Styling a blouse like this is definitively not the easiest thing! But I love how you combined it – it turned out to be a perfect black and white look!
    xx, Carmen – http://www.carmitive.com

    October 12, 2016 at 5:59 am Reply
  • Jennifer Laxmi

    Girl you are looking FIERCE! Like J-LO fierce. Loving this look and your shots!
    Xo Jen | http://LaxmiLifestyle.com

    October 13, 2016 at 1:40 pm Reply
  • the eye traveler

    I am in love with this outfit!


    October 14, 2016 at 3:45 pm Reply
  • lyrics

    Amazing look!

    October 17, 2016 at 5:24 am Reply
  • lyrics

    great post! i hope you’re having a wonderful day!

    October 17, 2016 at 5:25 am Reply

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